Okay I'm mildly freaking out - need to chill out and get info. and then go from there in terms of what my current obstetrician can and can not do for me.
Here's the situation. I'm 16.5 weeks pregnant. My prenatal care has been through a high risk OB dept at large city hospital. They told me on my first visit that I had to have an epidural for delivery "because we want you to be concentrating 100% on your lungs and breathing and not pain." I haven't had a problem with the idea of having one as I say I'm not trying to be a hero just deliver a healthy baby while keeping me also healthy...until yesterday.
I have started to interview doulas (birthing coach/assistant to couple). Yesterday I spoke with one and reiterated, like I do to the doctor each time I see him or her (there's 10 of them!), that I can not lay on my back (for exam purposes) and therefore <u>will not be delivering on my back</u> because laying on my back triggers hemopytsis (lung bleeding). No one has ever acted like this is a problem. The lady I spoke with yesterday told me (very nicely) that my idea of delivery on hands and knees or squating/sitting (whichever feels right) is NOT POSSIBLE WITH AN EPIDURAL. That initially when you get an epidural you must lay on your back or side (rolling from one to anther to avoid 'pooling') then after say an hour once it's numbed you good it's not removed. They leave it in there and you continue to lay in a reclined position with a spinal drip. She said if you are angled too much upward the mother's blood pressure starts to fall and then it's time for what I really, really, really want to avoid - C-section. I want to avoid this because of all the coughing I do to stay healthy. She said it would be nearly impossible to get me in a hands and knees position since I'd be limp and numb at the waist - even with my husband and her hauling me into position she said I wouldn't be able to hold myself up.
Okay after hearing all this - I want to labor with NO EPIDURAL. Are my understandings as stated above true? If so, I plan to see if the definite epidural is really required given my circumstances and if so I think I'll have to change OB's. They have been all about not bringing on hemoptysis thus far, so maybe they just haven't thought about it.
I don't have an appt. for 2 weeks and if I do need to change OB's I'm getting close to the cut off point of when a new doctor isn't going to 'want' me (either 20 or 25 weeks).
Ahhh!!!! HELP!!!!! Anyone have any experience or knowledge on this subject?
Here's the situation. I'm 16.5 weeks pregnant. My prenatal care has been through a high risk OB dept at large city hospital. They told me on my first visit that I had to have an epidural for delivery "because we want you to be concentrating 100% on your lungs and breathing and not pain." I haven't had a problem with the idea of having one as I say I'm not trying to be a hero just deliver a healthy baby while keeping me also healthy...until yesterday.
I have started to interview doulas (birthing coach/assistant to couple). Yesterday I spoke with one and reiterated, like I do to the doctor each time I see him or her (there's 10 of them!), that I can not lay on my back (for exam purposes) and therefore <u>will not be delivering on my back</u> because laying on my back triggers hemopytsis (lung bleeding). No one has ever acted like this is a problem. The lady I spoke with yesterday told me (very nicely) that my idea of delivery on hands and knees or squating/sitting (whichever feels right) is NOT POSSIBLE WITH AN EPIDURAL. That initially when you get an epidural you must lay on your back or side (rolling from one to anther to avoid 'pooling') then after say an hour once it's numbed you good it's not removed. They leave it in there and you continue to lay in a reclined position with a spinal drip. She said if you are angled too much upward the mother's blood pressure starts to fall and then it's time for what I really, really, really want to avoid - C-section. I want to avoid this because of all the coughing I do to stay healthy. She said it would be nearly impossible to get me in a hands and knees position since I'd be limp and numb at the waist - even with my husband and her hauling me into position she said I wouldn't be able to hold myself up.
Okay after hearing all this - I want to labor with NO EPIDURAL. Are my understandings as stated above true? If so, I plan to see if the definite epidural is really required given my circumstances and if so I think I'll have to change OB's. They have been all about not bringing on hemoptysis thus far, so maybe they just haven't thought about it.
I don't have an appt. for 2 weeks and if I do need to change OB's I'm getting close to the cut off point of when a new doctor isn't going to 'want' me (either 20 or 25 weeks).
Ahhh!!!! HELP!!!!! Anyone have any experience or knowledge on this subject?